Would you trust someone who has won the lottery just to properly define the concept of currency? Or, I don't know, ask a man to define bears while he is locking them up? Or is romance not like winning the lottery? Does the breakup not like bear attacks? Bad comparison? that's my point. I'm not thinking right because I'm in love, so ha! Pulling the step back, or taking a cold bath, whatever, love is possibly the most profound thought of all things in human history.
And despite centuries of passion, it still overwhelms us. Some people say that it is a feeling, a magical feeling, a feeling for someone that you have never felt before. But emotions are not a very solid basis for a definition. Sometimes you hate the person you love. Also, come on, you've felt the same feelings as before, like miniature. Your relationships with your family shape your relationships with partners. And your love for your partner can be in your own dynamic relationship, healthy or completely awkward, with the love of your parents and siblings. Love is also a set of behaviors we associate with emotion: holding hands, kissing, hugging, affection, dating, public display of marriage, having children, or just sex.
But these loving acts may be subjective or culturally relative. You can make love or have someone who doesn't have children or doesn't want someone who believes in marriage, but also in divorce, who is from a culture where people don't really date that way Like we think about dating, or who just doesn't want to get out on the bus. But if love is something we can define, how can it mean the opposite things to so many people? So, perhaps just love in your head, winding and pleasing through your nervous pathways, is a personal secret unleashing the natural rewards in your nervous system. Perhaps these awards are addictive.
Perhaps love is a temporary or permanent addition to a person, just as a person can become addicted to drugs. I don't mean to be edgy like some pop songs. Evidence suggests that chemicals stimulated by someone else in your brain can make you develop a habit for that person. The person comes to satisfy a physical craving, and you want more. But then sometimes, slowly or suddenly, not you. You have fallen out of love, have become unconscious, for a spell.
What happened? Does anyone develop tolerance or hit a limit? Why do some lovers get used to each other's whole life? Perhaps to spread their species, to create new life? Maybe love is only the optimal method to bring about its replication of human DNA. There are evolutionary arguments regarding each human mating behavior, how we display ourselves to potential mates, how we treat each other in relationships, how we raise children. Thus, some argue that the feeling you feel in your soul is simply a way of biology that allows you to continue our species.
Nature has chosen you to have a crush on the Haats, just as it crushes the monkeys on the hot monkeys, and marches on biology. But is it all love? Or, perhaps worse, is it just a construct, some fake concept we all try to live up to for the fake purpose of believing each other? Perhaps it is a construct, but to be more precise about what a construct is, love is constructed from reality: our experiences, emotions, brain chemistry, cultural expectations, our lives. And this editing can be seen through countless dimensions: scientific, emotional, historical, spiritual, legal, or just personal.
If no two people are equal, then no two people have the same love. Therefore, in every loving relationship, there is much to talk about and should be open to the partner, or the relationship may not go away. Love is always up for discussion and certainly under construction. So, if we cannot define it, it is a good sign. It means that we are still making it. Wait, I didn't mean that, you know what I mean.
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